Author Archives: Carolyn Evans

When the Stardust Disperses

The beginning of a relationship is magical. You bump along together, tripping the light fantastic, reflecting on rainbows and treading on stardust. Then you get married and move into the same house. Inevitably, this other person who before was completely … Continue reading

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10 Things I Learned by Having Sex With My Husband

This originally ran in Woman’s Day Magazine, but folks have been reposting it so I thought I would, too. 10 Things I Learned by Having Sex with My Husband I’m probably a lot like you: I work, have a family, … Continue reading

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Q & A from Best Self Magazine

Questions for Carolyn Evans, author of FORTY BEADS   How would you describe The Forty Beads Method? The Forty Beads Method is a sweet little token system that sort of magically dissolves the negative tension that can build around sex … Continue reading

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Female desire. It’s a Two Step Process

What happens when a wife observes her husband doing thoughtful things and feels him engaging with her emotionally? She becomes attracted to him. Because for most of us women, our emotional switch has to get flipped before the desire switch … Continue reading

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Romance. Exactly What Is That, Anyway?

With Valentine’s Day approaching like a freight train, let’s look at what our culture calls romance. Here’s a question for you: You’d like for your relationship to have more romance, wouldn’t you? But what do you mean by that? Do … Continue reading

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